Thursday, January 2, 2014

Thoughts on maternity cloths...



 
For Christmas this year, I received a visa gift card. I wasn’t sure what to spend it on but I knew that I needed some new cloths that would fit me in the coming months. Most of my jeans are too tight but most of my shirts still fit me pretty good because they all stretch. I have one pair of jeans that fit perfect still. A few pairs I totally grew out of and a very few that I can wear but I am using a hair tie to keep the button closed. I loop the hair tie through the hole and tighten it then loop that one piece around the button and whalah! Jeans that fit! That only gets you by for so long though.  I have used the bellybands before. The “strap” of fabric that goes around your hips to keep your pants up when they aren’t buttoned, or zipped sometimes, but I always got mad because when I sat down, they would roll up. Therefore, I had to keep adjusting them. Adjusting my pants, the band, my shirts…UGH! Not worth it!
In my quest for maternity clothes that were affordable, I went to about a million websites. Now, either I’m cheap or frugal, but all of the websites charged way more than I wanted to pay. However, there were a few sites that had really good deals and I will list those:
www.zulily.com – I got a great pair of maternity pants for $17 that fit PERFECT and when I tried them on, they didn’t even look like maternity jeans. Very stylish and comfortable.
www.Target.com – There were a lot of overpriced things here, however I scored a great maternity/nursing top on clearance for $7 and a nursing bra that I did pay almost $25 for. This is a little steep if you ask me but I knew a nursing bra would be and this one had a ton of great reviews.
www.burlingtoncoatfactory.com – Had the best deals. I could have shopped till I dropped. Everything was super cheap and cute. I ended up buying two pairs of maternity jeans, maternity yoga pants, and three maternity shirts and paid about $100. The only thing that was somewhat weird was sizing. The pants I got from Zulily were a size M, so I got a size M from Burlington, but both pairs ended up being a bit baggy. I’ll have to return them and get a small or I know I won’t be comfortable in them and thus, I won’t wear them.
I think that’s a lot of cloths for not very much money. I’m happy, I just wish those two pairs of jeans fit but that’s an easy fix. I didn’t end up getting any nursing tank tops. It was on my list of things I wanted. So, like I do with everything else, I looked up reviews for the best nursing tanks and the top three out there costs between $40 and $70. WOW!!! I’m used to going to Kohl’s and getting a SO… brand tank top for under $5. I mean, I know it’s a bit too early to worry about nursing cloths but I like to have all my p’s and q’s in line way before baby arrives. I’m about 19 weeks along so, half way. By 30 weeks, I don’t want to have to buy a single thing. I want to have anything all ready because you never know what could happen and I want to be prepared. Anyway, I know some clever ways to nurse wearing (some kinds) of regular cloths and I plan on buying one of those nursing covers you wear in public. This baby will be born in the start of summer and if you know me, I wear a lot of cami’s (tank tops) in the summer time. So, I have to have some that make it easy to nurse in. This gave me the idea, “How hard can it possibly be to make one?” I already have a million cami’s. Therefore, that’s what I set out to do tonight, make one of my cheap Kohl’s brand (So…) cami’s into a nursing cami. And…I think it may be a success. So, I decided to post what I did.
·         The reason I chose the Kohl’s brand, SO… cami’s is because they are very stretchy, comfortable and come in a million colors. Top it off, they are super cheap!
#1 First thing I did was to lay my cami flat out.



#2 Next, I cut the strap totally off in the back.



#3 In front, I cut off all but about 2-3 inches.



#4 I then looped that 2-3 inches of strap behind the front of the cami and sewed it in place really good. Of course, I did this on both sides.



#5 Then, I unhooked the nursing bra and slid the loops I made, over the clasp. (The unhook part that comes down when you breast feed) -i should have adjusted that green strap before i took the photo-



#6 Here is what the finished product looks like and what it would look like if you were to take it off to breast feed. Of course, I didn’t want to show my boob…but you get the picture.




In my experience, you don’t have to buy a bunch of maternity clothes. A few staples? Yes! Jeans are a must, new comfortable bra’s and undies a must. Most shirts however will stretch with you. And if you still want something new, you can find some real deals at second hand clothing stores (such as Playdoughs closet). It is fun to buy some new shirts though, if they are reasonably priced. I personally love the maternity shirts with side runching. Those always make the belly look super cute.
Anyway, I’m pretty good on maternity clothes. Nursing tops are not something that is NEEDED either. I think the basics that I like to have are nursing pajamas, which are especially nice in the hospital. And a couple shirts in case you go out somewhere and want to be extra discrete. Besides that, cloths when pregnant and after shouldn’t be something to stress about. You don’t need a whole wardrobe. I’m even kind of regretting buying what I bought because I know that in about 20 weeks, I won’t fit into half the stuff I bought.

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

In with the New Year. Out with resolutions.



Every year, it seems like we all resolve to do something new for the coming year. This year I will lose weight, eat healthy, get a promotion, and buy a house…whatever it might be. It’s always some big goal that we are determined to reach with a wicked tenaciousness. In the first few months at least. We start out hitting all the targets to our goals. Keeping on track and staying high with hope and expectation. If in the end, you reach those goals, then congratulations. You are amongst the slight few that actually follow though. Not saying that most of us don’t have the willpower to succeed. But face it, things happen. Things change. Situations change and things don’t always go as planned. Therefore, if you’re like me, always making a new year’s resolution and never really reaching it, then it could end up being more of a negative thing than positive. It’s good to have goals and aspirations but at what cost?
Last year, I resolved to eat healthy, exercise, and lose weight. I stayed on track for a couple months. Well, kind of. Occasionally, I would falter and go off track. One night I couldn’t sleep so I stayed up watching movies and ate a bunch of ice cream with crushed up cookies inside. But that didn’t quite hit the spot, so I heated up a brownie and had brownie and ice cream. After I ate it, I was left feeling like a failure. As if everything that I had done up to that point was wiped away with one night of bad choices. I went to sleep and woke up the next morning feeling defeated. I was angry with myself for not eating healthier and for not following through with my plan. It affected my mood and my self-worth. So, it makes me ask myself the question, “How is this making my new year better?” How is something that started out being so exciting being twisted into this warped perception of winning or failing? I had a few more moments like that until I finally gave up, stating I couldn’t do it, and went about my normal life. Not worrying about my choices, food or resolution. I have to say, I was much happier. My days were filled with devoting extreme attention on my family. Playing with the boys, taking them places, doing things, making sure Stefan was doing good in school, feeding a flourishing relationship, etc… I had no time to worry about my diet and such. There was too much going on. So bottom line is, I stuck to my “resolution” for about 3 months. From that, I lost about 4 pounds. That’s with doing everything I possibly could to be active and healthy. I started out 2013 at about 135 pounds. Not heavy by any means. My main goal was to lose the last of the baby flab and to firm up. Now of course I got pregnant in 2013 so, in October, I started gaining pregnancy weight. But, my weight before I got pregnant (In September) was about 110. Which if you know me, is perfect for my size. I have a very small frame and I still looked and felt extremely healthy. Looking back, I realize I didn’t have to put so much stress and focus into it. My diet started out delicious but I was so deprived of the foods I wanted and in the times when I felt the most weak and had the biggest cravings, I would cave in and eat more than anything. By throwing away my resolution and just living my life, I ended up unintentionally reaching my goals. Things just happened. I guess if something is meant to be, it will happen. It doesn’t matter what the goal or resolution is.
So why don’t we all just throw resolutions to the wind this year? How about we focus on just trying to be better people. Let’s focus on “paying it forward”. Or maybe being a more patient parent or having a new attitude and thinking positively. Let’s resolve to help people in need. Stop being petty. Stop talking about people behind their back. Perhaps cut down on cursing. Baby steps are key. Or, if you must resolve to a huge goal, break it down into baby steps (a bunch of small goals to equal one big goal). That way, you’ll have many small accomplishments and it might make it easier to accomplish. There’s no use on starting out a new year with stress of a resolution picking at the back of your brain. Do yourself a favor, just live 2014 to the fullest. Live, Laugh, Love, and ENJOY LIFE!